Building on the groundbreaking original work by Edmund White and Charles Silverstein, a fully revised and expanded edition of a classic, comprehensive guide to gay sex, love, and life. Featuring 50 new illustrations.

One of the touchstones of the emerging gay consciousness when it was first published in the 70’s, and a standard reference for gay men throughout the 80’s and 90’s, The Joy of Gay Sex has informed countless men about the ins and outs of gay life, love, and pleasure. A full decade has now passed since the last update, and while the gay community has seen improved treatments for AIDS, more positive media coverage, new forums for the expression of community, and more favorable laws, there continues to be an urgent need for this book’s brand of positive, responsible advice on sexual health.

Invaluable not only as a gay sex guide but as a resource on building self-esteem, and a coming out guide for young gay men, The Joy of Gay Sex addresses the many emotional and relationship-oriented issues in gay life, from navigating long-term couples and one-night stands, to loneliness and growing older. It also serves as a general reference on a number of diverse topics, including living wills and insurance.

This essential LGBTQ+ resource offers clear, compassionate advice on:

Coming Out & Self-Esteem: Supportive advice for every stage of the journey, from a young man’s first time to building the confidence to tell family and friends.
Navigating Relationships: Honest guidance on everything from long-term couples and one-night stands to handling loneliness, jealousy, and growing older.
Sexual Health & Safety: Crucial, up-to-date information on safe sex, HIV, STDs, and communicating with partners to protect your well-being.
A Guide to Gay Life: Beyond the bedroom, this book covers diverse topics from finding community to practical matters like insurance and living wills.